Video Blog 3 v7
Love language (Have it in pixie dust)
I remember when my friend Bill Flash name on Screen visited me in the hospital…those first few days after my stroke …in March 2008.
I motioned for Bill to hand me a pencil and paper. Pause Then I scribbled out a note. Pause
I then looked at what I wrote and it became clear to me…. Pause I understood the challenges that I would be facing… going foward. Pause
I told him to deliver the note to my wife. He looked at it and Pause became tearing eyed. Show teary eyed clip
I still have the note and I can see why he became teary eyed. It Show note said tell my wife Jill Pause that I still “ love her. “ Pause Different Angle Now I’m becoming teary eyed! Different Angle Pause
Even when I didn’t know anything, I still knew that one thing: I loved my wife! Show hearts
Are you in a relationship now? Pause Are you going thru life,…married…and just taking that relationship for granted? Pause Different Angle Don’t do that! Different Angle
Listen To This!
Stop what you are doing …and start expressing gratitude… Pause today.
Pause First, Tell her how well she treats other people; Different Angle
Pause Second, Tell her you like her sense of humor; Different Angle
Pause Third, Tell her that you really respect her. Different Angle
Pause Fourth, Tell her that she makes you laugh at the funny stuff Different Angle
Pause and finally Fifth, Tell her that you love just being around her. Different Angle
Pause Are you doing this now? Pause
Gary Chapman ’s book….The 5 love languages, explains how you need to talk in your partners love language. Pause
Jill told me about the book and suggested I take the Love Language test. Pause It turned LL Test out our love languages… LL Test are similar. …We do value what the other person is feeling.
The Love Language book has changed the way we look at relationships. Pause Where do you start??? Pause
Take the Love Language Quiz and read the Love Language book. Love language quiz This will lead you to speak in THEIR love language; honor where THEY are.
Pause I summary, THEIR life … Pause and YOUR life Pause will be out if this world! Pause Pause
You want to know something?? Pause Gifts Pause is one of the love languages…and is not one of the things that means that much to us; Pause show love language but gifts was my mothers Love Language; Pause
She was all about gifts. Gifts for Christmas, gifts for your birthday, little cards for no apparent reason, etc. Pause Pause I realized that, and started giving her gifts and cards… around holidays, especially mothers day! She love that; What a difference it made in her remaining years! Smile